February 14, 2005

• LVe

  
  

  

  
  

  This entry is for my friends and suitors who've taught me a lot about love and life in the past year alone.  It seems everyone is rushing around to find their one love, just because its Valentines Day.  There is so much pressure to find someone for this one day, and some are just willing to settle for just about anyone, just so they wont be alone.  Its sad that in this day and age, peer pressure can still haunt and force us to adhere to commercialized traditions. All of a sudden men whom you have never met before begin to gain courage to ask you out, and men who never talked to you before are now full of questions, one of them being "Are you single?" LOL!  How many of you heard that in the last month alone?  I won't stereotype because I know us women are just as panicked!  Ahhh that dreaded date for V-Day huh? 

  
  

   It has been a long 5 weeks, and the year is still fresh, so I'm sure there is more to come.  Nevertheless since I asked everyone who their Valentine is, then I ought to share who my Valentine is.  My valentine is caring, devoted, a joy to be around, affectionate to adoration, intelligent, loves me unconditionally, never judgemental, forever devoted to me, never lies to me, thoughtful, considerate, truly beautiful inside and out, yep you guess it, my Valentine is my tiny but beautiful Luna.  Are you shocked?  You shouldn't be, lately a lot of men have stepped up to try and take Jerome's place in my heart, but to no avail, because its easy to say words and its easy to promise the world, but actions always speak louder than words, and no one has acted more unselfish than Jerome.

  
  

  So until I find someone who comes close, then I would rather be alone, settling for something less just so you have someone for this one day of the year is a lie, both to others and to yourself.  I know I tried, but it didn't work, so be true to yourself and never settle for anything less than what you deserve.  So if there is anyone who is at least 6ft, built like a house, honest, loyal, intelligent, not to mention romantic, plus living about 10 miles from Vallejo, please call.....

  
  

  I'm kidding haha! Ok its time to sleep, please remember that on this Valentines Day, rather than looking for the love of your life, say thank you and spend time with the people who already love you now, whether its your husband/wife, bf/gf, family or friends.  I am lucky I have such good bestfriends and we still exchange gifts even on Valentines Day, because hey I love them and they love me. My family who remind me of how lucky I am everyday yeah I love them a lot.  My luna who I love more than anyone.  This day is a day of love, not a day to be with whoever just so you dont feel so alone, because you will find that when you are with the one whom you don't love or worse still someone who does not love you back, then you are alone, for love must be a shared emotion, for only then is it truly breathtaking.  Watch Hitch btw, it was an awesome movie, either watch it alone or with someone you care for, otherwise it wont have the same magic, because it will open your eyes to what love is suppose to be, it will enlighten you that in this life, two people will fall in love for the strangest reasons, and last forever.  It's a funny, modern and well versed film about love, AWESOME!!

  
  

  What I am really trying to say is don't rush love, it will come in its own time, believe me it will.  Think of Valentines day as the day to celebrate the love you should have for yourself and the love that you already have around you, from the people who care for you the most.  Think of it this way "Never look towards the horizon for what may come, instead focus on what's in front of you, past is yesterday and the future is tomorrow, present is here and now, think about them accordingly" 

  
  

  "Don't look for love, don't you know that love will find its way to your heart..."   in time

  
  

  Nite nite   Enjoy your day of love....

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